(Part 2/5) FREEDOM FROM F.O.M.O.
If you’re like me, it can be easy to compare yourself to others and measure your worth against their “perceived” success. I’ve done this with just about everything imaginable - down to pure jealousy that some people can consume massive amounts of fast food and still look great. Hahaha. (Insert confession about frequent Taco Bell and Wienerschnitzel daydreams) Now that I’ve completely lost your respect, let’s move on.
But seriously, have you noticed that comparison/envy/jealousy are always close by? F.O.M.O. is ready to pop up at any moment. I’ve seen this - both in the broader Christian Music community and also in myself - that subtle fear that we’re part of a “less cool” genre. Or that you’ll have to make music you don’t like to be accepted. The potential problem for Christian Music Makers arises when we are driven by a fear of missing out: Missing out on respect, accolades, or awards. Or maybe it's a "fear of missing out" on making the music of your dreams because of the pressure to appease labels, radio, etc.
But "F.O.M.O." literally has the word “FEAR” in it! Scripture shows us that "God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity but of power, love, and self-discipline." (2 Timothy 1:7) Is dope music made by comparing/competing with other songs, artists, or genres? All the time! (I.e. the famous Beatles/Beach Boys album competition.) But let’s be real: often what is understood as “good” is based on acceptance by people, achievement measurements, or consensus about what "good music" sounds like in whatever particular decade we find ourselves in. But as Christian Music Makers, what if “good music” involves factors outside of typical measures of successful music?
Yeah, we gotta make sales and get streams and all that. But I’m talking more about our “why” not necessarily our “how.” The truth is, we CAN’T "miss out" on anything because we’re God's. We have unlimited access to the Source of all good things. "Missing out" for God's people is not a thing. We can make music with ZERO fear. We're free to make music our world NEEDS, rather than just music the world wants.
So create boldly, my friends.
In the meantime, here are some wisdom-gems from God’s Word to consider on this topic:
“Everything that belongs to the world - what the sinful self desires, what people see and want, and everything in this world that people are so proud of - none of this comes from the Father; it all comes from the world.” (1 John 2:15-16)
“Where there is jealousy and selfishness, there is also disorder and every kind of evil.” (James 3:16)